In today's episode, my new co-moderator Inna and I talk with Ondra, known as Krutý Sever, who found himself at the center of a heated online controversy and faces serious accusations of crossing boundaries and disregarding consent. Together we open the topic of cancel culture, exclusion from the community without the possibility of defense, and the functioning of mob mentality on social media. Ondra explains why he decided to file a criminal complaint himself and why he seeks impartial investigation by law enforcement authorities instead of online trials. We discuss new legislation defining safe sex, the complexity of evidence in BDSM and Shibari, the risks of intimate work with people, and how important it is to be able to clearly communicate one's own boundaries and take responsibility for one's decisions.

Episode preview with Charlie Deen

A small but hopefully nice video from the photoshoot with Dragonfruit.

Episode preview with Gold Fenixx

Do we really need to hear an explicit, out-loud "yes" before every intimate moment, or is it enough to use common sense and respect a clear "no"? In today's video, we'll take a quick look at why I see efforts for extreme rules of consensual consent as impractical and why the well-known tea metaphor doesn't quite work in human relationships.