matref

I take BDSM as a way to unwind from everyday life and as a game with an erotic undertone (for about 10 years now). I like: bondage (helplessness) e.g. with leather cuffs, optionally foil so I can't fully decide for myself, facesitting, tying up, orgasm denial, erotic teasing (short skirts, self-supporting stockings with patterns, garters, deep neckline), occasional blindfolding during a session using e.g. a latex mask without eye openings, a scarf, etc. (so I don't know what's coming), gags (preferably Madam's panties), satisfying Madam with a dildo-shaped gag, latex clothing optionally lacquer, wax optionally mild electro. Sometimes I want piss on the body or directly into the pussy. I don't particularly need male anal, a small plug or pin but I can handle it. Sometimes I feel like sounding, dilation or filling the balls with saline solution. I don't want any hard and bloody practices like needles etc., hard punishments - beating e.g. with a whip, cane etc. (practices that leave marks on the body), scat. I also don't need deprivation masks with restricted breathing, prolonged suffocation (exception is intermittent facesitting, gas mask, with breasts etc.).

Sometimes I play with the idea of being dressed in women's lingerie including artificial breasts, makeup, wig, high heels or boots for Madam's amusement.

I would also like to try being a helpless spectator during some session of Madam with another sub (male or female).